Saturday, April 28, 2012

Creating Memories for your angel

Here is a list of things you can do Memory box of babies things, pictures etc Display shelf of ultrasound pictures or their teddy bears or their name displayed Babies photograph around you, screensaver in your phone, picture on your desk, screen on your computer, etc Memorial candle, light it in memory of the child Scrap book Slide show of baby photos Create an online memorial website or blog Name a star in your babies memory Special piece of jewelry( I wear a locket with lanes name in it everyday) Window statues of Angels or anything else that reminds you f your baby Teddy bear, hold bear, dress it up like a baby etc

How to deal with that feeling

From my experience with this I have felt that hopeless feeling. You get the feeling that there is nothing you can do to bring him back and you feel defeated. When someone asks me if there is anything they can do to help sometimes I just want to say "can you bring my baby nephew back?" but I know that no one o this earth is able to do that. The only way I have been able to cope with this devastating experience is through memories of lane. On my next post I will share a list of things you can do to keep your angel baby a part of your life ad how to create memories because most family members who aren't the parents of the baby are left with no memories of their angel. The parents usually have the blankets and hats and those sort of things.

CONTACT ME :)

You can email me at Cameronlovesballet@gmail.com I am not a professional in counseling or anything like that but I am here to give you my advice or just listen to what you have to say. I also found a good website with another person you can talk to her name is Marika Barris you can find her at Mybabyangel.com of you can't find it I will email you a link I'm not sure if I am writing The title the right way because I'm doing all of this on my phone, sorry about that. Well email me and Marika for advice and support she has supported me through this tough time and I hope to support Someone going through the same thing :) <3

The point of this blog

This is a blog to remember my angel nephew lane and you can share your stories of miscarriage or stillbirth or any losses You have experienced. The whole point of this blog is to mourn the death of Lane and any other angels who died too soon. Rest in paradise Lane Curtis Topping