The people trying to conceive

I feel like people don't really put as much thought into women who are ttc (trying to conceive) or the women who are just heartbroken over false positive pregnancy tests. That kind of thing is really sad. If you thought you were pregnant and you are attatched to what you thought was your baby then you have a right to grieve and you have a right to treat it as a loss. I dont understand why people don't see it as an important loss or feeling

When your feeling down...

I honestly don't know how to advise you to go through the depression. I have gone through pain like this so many times and it seems like every time I just ask myself why. Why does it have to be this way? Why have I lost so many people in my life? I'll really doubt god during these times, I wonder if god is just a myth (still don't know) its not like I have it all together and I have all of the answers, I just want this blog to be a place to go where maybe some people can grieve together and share stories.

It counts as a loss

I don't care if it's stillbirth, miscarriage, losing an infant, losing a child or an adult, or even if you thought you were pregnant and got attached to your baby you thought you were pregnant with, etc. THEY ALL COUNT AS LOSSES! If it affects you and makes you feel like you have lost someone. Don't worry about what other people say, many people are judgmental of angel mothers, fathers and other family members. People don't understand that losing a baby still counts as loss. I don't know why but it just seems like the world doesn't really understand